Gay younger for older dating

I have been getting approached by a beautiful younger man from work who is 30 and I am 65, he is brilliant and attractive and seems to be interested in me. I am not the average 65yr old as many say I look about Are many ladies here dating younger men or have you considered dating younger men before? Oh OP - in your dreams!

He may be charming and a flatterer but is very unusual indeed to fancy a year old woman in the way you seem to think he does. You may think you pass for 40 but it is highly unlikely. Perhaps he thinks you have money- there have been sad cases of gay older men befriended, fleeced of their savings and in one case I can think of, actually murdered by the lover.

Perhaps he is a natural flirt or charmer. Cher and Lulu looked much younger in their sixties but are not looking like that now, even with everything lifted and filled. I know someone who loves older women, and he likes them to look their age, too. Takes all sorts, after all. I would also be very cautious - he might have a bet going on with some mates - M.

F springs to mind. A 65 year old does not look 40……. Why cant he find someone without a 35 year age gap, your old enough to be his grandma.

Dating younger men

I think you're living in a fantasy world. I wouldn't dream of dating someone with that age gap. It's a bit of a trend at the moment for younger men to sleep with older women, although not usually with quite such a large age gap. Are you sure you aren't confusing a for of office banter with genuine romantic interest? Admits I'd be cynical too now.

I'm early 70's - though I've genuinely been assured I look young for my age. I was interested in a couple of men around 50 for a bit - but then realised both are datings and their apparent interest in me was of a purely mercenary nature. I also have to be aware that I'm in a part of the country now West Wales where a noticeable number of men are in a "relationship" where the man lives in the womans house ie because he hasn't got one himself - even at that sort of age - rather than being a "young man".

It's notorious amongst women around my age that we notice this a lot in this area. Neither of the younger men I thought were interested in me were really and they were just checking it out to see how much they might be able to get from me even though my income - from job and State pensions together - just about equates to only National Minimum Wage level.

I find it odd that so many people "draw mental lines" as to who they'd really genuinely be interested in - but I can see that the two men old are out to "use" anyone and everyone - of any agegroup. I'll add that it is hard for those of us that were attractive when we were younger and pretty much able to interest any man we wanted to gay it's hard to realise Mother Nature and time have combined to remove that attractiveness.

I've from plain to attractive back to plain again with the best will in the world myself.