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These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner. Cis is the opposite of trans. Want to know how? When a straight guy gets obnoxiously defensive at the thought of anything up or around his butt. There is nothing wrong with these traits. To state otherwise is internalised homophobia and degrading to your partner.

If you want to experiment with being on top in a same-sex fumble, by all means get in first well-lubricated of course. The pleasure it brings transcends sexuality yep, it feels gay good. And one more thing — gay sex does not automatically mean anal sex. There are loads of ways to have fun without it!

Remember there is nothing wrong with still being unsure of yourself. But be careful about how you phrase it when addressing this with your partner. There is nothing wrong with being gay or sex thought of as gay. Forcing your partner into a pact of silence could be construed as shame on your part.

This will make them feel used. Try this instead:.

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Want to give same-sex experimentation a go? I applaud you for having the confidence to pursue your newfound desires. Naomi Hersi, a black transgender women was killed in London at the end of March. On Transgender Day of Visibilitysay her name. Find out more and read our full Privacy Policy here. Skip to content.

You can still be homophobic with a penis in your mouth Want to know how? Am I gay? Previous Previous. Next Continue. Similar Posts. Three simple steps towards being a good ally. Lube is crucial for safe and pleasurable sex — so check out our handy lube guide.