Meet older gay men

All the time we get asked by younger gay guys:. To these questions, this post is an attempt to help you meet an older gay man for fun or with boyfriend intentions. As a younger guy that's attracted to older men, it can be frustrating when most of your friends and colleagues are near ish to your age.

It can make finding an older boyfriend difficult - others have it easy, right?! So exactly how do you find an older man to date? Well as everyone's different in what they're looking for, their environment - e. We've even rated them gay you can figure out the best options for your personal situation.

I know, I know, we're starting old school here. However there are nuances to meeting older men in gay bars that are different to meeting younger guys, so we thought it worthwhile going through. Beyond simply infiltrating groups of older gay guys via flirtatious looks from across the bar, you can sometimes spot lone rangers propped up at the bar to engage.

They may just be out for a drink, feeling the vibe, or on the prowl. However finding an older man wallflower is not uncommon in gay bars. If they're the sort of guy you're into, prop yourself nearby and try and make eye contact a very British way of engagingor men you're bolder, simply go and say hey and see if they fancy a chat.

They may say they're just chilling, but no biggie, just move onto another spot. If you're not brave enough for this vocal boldness, you can use whatever hookup app is popular where you are and see if they're online there to open a chat with. Be conscious though that older men are less likely to be on these apps.

Beyond this, if you're in an area with multiple gay bars, some get reputations for certain clientele. Like in London's Soho, the Duke of Wellington is a meet Bear bar, and the Kings arms on Poland street attracts a similar, but possibly slightly older crowd. Unfortunately the City of Quebec that used to be renowned as having a older gay crowd - J said it was commonly called the ' elephant's graveyard '!!

If you're visiting a city or new place, have a look at reviews of bars to check out who will be there. Being older, they came to the internet a bit later in old.

Where Can I Find and Meet Older Gay Men?

Those being 50 or 60 plus are sometimes less on the pulse with the latest apps and technologies. As such older gentlemen sometimes stick to what they first engaged with when they were more adventurous, but still does the job. This is why gay specific sites such as. SilverDaddies are huge particularly in the US. Gay Romeo can be a popular option in mainland Europe less so in the UK.

Adam4Adam - globally sizeable, more hookup focused. Gaydar - J's old favourite, it's less popular but still there.